Jan 277 lessons I learned as my autistic son turned teenThe last 13 years of growing up with my son and learning with him have given me some insight into how to coexist with autism — As my son turns 13, I reflect upon the years passed by. Those who have been a part of our journey would agree that our journey has been nothing short of extraordinary. As compared to most, our joys and our challenges have been different in so many ways and surprisingly…Autism7 min read
Jun 10, 2021My hope is stubbornMy hope is stubborn My son’s life is challenging. We hit many roadblocks but I refuse to give up on hope Let me state this at the start of this post — my son is one heck of autistic. What this means is that he has way too many autistic…5 min read
Jun 10, 2021Let me state this at the start of this post — my son is one heck of autistic.Let me state this at the start of this post — my son is one heck of autistic. What this means is that he has way too many autistic traits that make the possibility of him leading an independent life a little doubtful. Do I worry about it? OfCourse, I…Autism4 min read
Mar 18, 20217 Traits of my son I wish I had ⋆ Little thoughtlets from the world of AutismWhile you see autism, I see traits that I wish more of us had… Like most individuals on the autism spectrum, my son has his fair share of challenges. Most days, we are focused on how to enhance his life experiences and enable and empower him towards a more independent…Autism6 min read
Feb 12, 2021Sincemy mom passed away 9 yrs back, I have made it a point to call my dad every morning and…Sincemy mom passed away 9 yrs back, I have made it a point to call my dad every morning and evening, almost every day. Most days the call ends in less than 30 secs, but some days we drift into a conversation that’s different from the routine. Those are the…Autism4 min read
Jan 14, 2021A different kind of happy ⋆ Little thoughtlets from the world of AutismA conversation with my husband freed me of my doubts over my happiness Happiness has an interesting ability to shift shapes. Just like a liquid, it will seep in, squeeze into, or fill up your life, no matter what your circumstances. Everyone finds their reason to be happy. So when…Autism4 min read
May 26, 2020I have been happy lately.I have been happy lately. Very busy, exhausted by the end of the day, but very content and much at peace. So, In these times of pandemic and lockdown, what is it that’s making me smile more often? It’s the fact that we are not meeting people. While I have…Autism5 min read
Feb 14, 2020When a hug from my autistic son meant more than just thatWhen a hug from my autistic son meant more than just that My son has learnt to accept being ignored, or so it looks like. He has also probably learnt to accept the fact that he is different and that people are not comfortable around different. …Autism3 min read
Oct 22, 2019A promise to never stop believing ⋆ Little thoughtlets from the world of AutismAfter my son’s diagnosis, our life changed in many ways. Visits to friends went down and trips to doctors and therapies shot up. The more we met various therapists, the more we learned how complex the process of a child’s development is. We now had a fancy word for everything…Autism4 min read
Jul 2, 2019A picture, a co-worker and a beautiful lessonhow a simple act of sharing my son’s pic taught me a beautiful lesson If you ever get to visit my house or scroll through my phone’s camera roll or browse my social media posts, you’ll know that I’m obsessed with my son’s pics. Like every other mom out there…Autism3 min read